Men don't come from Mars, Women don't come from Venus! Both come from a cave and have complementary brains!
You can Get More! from your couple when you know how your partner's brain works! Don't worry the heavy lifting has been made for you! Keep reading to Learn more!
Female and male brains don't handle language in the same area of the brain. Female brains use most of the cortex, male ones only the left part. That's why she is using a more "generic" vocabulary than him.
Dark chocolate triggers the same brain receptors as the ones activated by drugs, called the cannabinoid receptors. Champagne works well on the male brain.
Wondering why men mostly never talk when "doing it"? That's because language and "sex focus" are located in the same area of the male brain. To make him last longer ask him to talk.
Memorisation is the combination of emotion and repetition. Wonder why women remember all the dates and men none? That's because the female brain handles emotions better than the male one.
The Neuro Couple System will teach you many more and how to use them for You to Get More! Keep Reading ...
Male and Female brains are different due to the Human species evolution. You HAVE TO know them to be/stay happy in your relationship!
Psychology, psychanalyse is painful as you have to expose yourself to a stranger trying to access your thoughts. What if you could learn what really drives your partner's decisions? And how to drive those?
What if you could use simple techniques derived from the latest neuroscience daily and Get More! from your partner?
Until now your only solutions to save you from your couple were: read many psychology couple books, test the concepts, try to persuade your partner to do the same or find a divorce lawyer!
You also had the option to listen to your family or best friends all suggesting that you have to "change", adapt to keep your partner!?
ENOUGH! Be YOU! Be TWO! Be NEW! With the NeuroCouple system designed just for YOU!
Be You! You are the key element to all your relationships. People like and love you for who you are. Over the time you are getting more and more pressure to change, to become someone else to please them all. Should you? No!Learn how you can use your brain to stay who you are and still have successful relationships! Become a Couple Warrior!
Be Two! Humans are a social specie and as such always seek people to be with and to share their life with. It's already tough to be in friendly relationships as you all have your own history and memories. But being in a couple is the ultimate challenge that 70% fail!What if you could belong to the 30% elite ?What if you could become a Couple Warrior
Be New! Taking massive action to reach your happiness is what people like you do! You deserve to be a Couple Warrior! Every step in life starts with a new learning! You will find here all the knowledge you need to grow as a person and as a Couple Warrior!
You will be back to your true-self:
When you start a relationship it is because of who you are. Why change then? You can be you and use the brain to handle your relationships.
Using the way the brain reacts and takes decisions will help you be perceived as the one to be and share with .
Your reputation, your pleasure, your knowledge, yourself, by using the power of brain science .
Summer Relationships
The sun has a direct impact on your desire, and need for relationships.
How to get the Woman of Your Dreams
Especially written for men!
What Men Want
Men are a bit more complex than you think ...
4 Brain Secrets for Optimal Dating Profiles
Use science to be seen!
How to Fight Porn Addiction
Stop putting your couple and success at risk!
Body Language
Learn to read the subconscious signals your partner is sending.
Get More!
Learn how you can Get More! Love, Freedom and Sex in your relationship.
"Loved everything so far"
I am a Neuro Couple Group member for 3 weeks now, the group was funded by Thomas who I know for some years. His passion for neurosciences made him decide to share his knowledge for the couple. As much as we get taught a lot during childhood, as much we know nothing about the couple … and this is where Neuro Couple helps … couples but also singles. Neuro Couple gives us the keys to this mystery: the couple, for both men and women. Aside the knowledge, the personal thinking “of course, that’s it!” (getting conscious of one’s own mistakes), Neuro Couple shares this knowledge in a friendly and happy way …
- Régine
"My life changed forever"
Joining Neuro Couple was a nice surprise to me. The way ideas, information, stories are mixed and communicated in different steps makes not only very friendly the reading, but the stronger the understanding of the topics themselves. It is up to me to translate those tips and readings, into a more effective approach and behaviour towards my mate. I will keep entering the group every evening, because I found out that is much more worth to, than I expected when I joined.
- Alessandro
"Highly recommend this"
Living for 25 years my couple life while always asking myself the same questions to improve the relationship has been mi daily trouble till I found how useful the Neuro Couple is. Yes, this group has helped me on many levels. Thanks to its concise content, the self-explanatory videos, the group has started to answer some of the many questions I was asking myself about my couple’s well-being and what the best way to handle difficult times, for both partners. As surprising as this can sound, this group, thanks to the ideas and advice it provides helped me also to answer questions I never even asked myself. This group, funded by Thomas is also bilingual (French and English), which I appreciate.
- Anne-Marie
Your mom, family, friends are always telling you that you can save your couple by changing, by being another person, and you believed them? THINK AGAIN!
"I told you so! I told you that this isn't the right partner for you" ... "If you don't make the effort and change, your couple will break-up!" ... "You never listen to me, you don't hear me, I want a divorce" ... and this could go on and on and on.
Your Brain
Why male and female brains aren't equals: Evolution has formatted the human brain based on the role of each gender in the growth of humanity. Sounds great? Almost ... because evolution, for the brain, stopped 100.000 years ago ... oooops!
How these differences are impacting your life: as much rational as you can be ... your couple life is still impacted by old primal processes that are driving your behaviours and killing your couple .... the solution to become a winner are listed in your book.
How can you Get More! in your relationship? The answer is this one: use your brains! Yours and your partner's ... but use them at their most primal level ... at the level that runs human relationships!
Your Communication
Handle arguments, make them shorter and come back to being happy faster. How is that possible? Every of your arguments/fights is about an ancestral survival system called fight/flight. Driven by chemicals in the human brain for thousands of years, it still runs nowadays. Learn to manage it properly and stop fighting.
Communicate with the other gender's brain. Thanks ... sort of ... to human evolution male and female brains don't communicate the same way. They don't even handle language the same way. Learn how male and female communication processes work and start to really talk a common language.
Your Decisions
Your brain and your partner's brain make decisions at the primal level as it has been scientifically demonstrated 15 years ago.
There is no rational decision in normal life and even less in a couple relationship! To Get More! the solution is to learn how those decisions are made and what triggers you should use.
Use contrast
Use emotions (with care)
Fight Adrenaline
Your Techniques
You will learn that thanks to the brain you can get crazy results just by using red lipstick, or give him champagne and to her dark chocolate. You will also discover why some words aren't perceived the same way in. the male and the female brains.
Welcome to the NeuroCouple system! I have developed it to help all the people who want to be happy in their couple.
The Brain being a passion I have compiled for you the latest brain science. No need to spend painful hours with psychiatrists, couple coaches who use old fashinoed methods (why do you think those guys make so much money? No need to go to some expensive divorce lawyer.
Your smile is my fuel!
Use the NeuroCouple system and start smiling again!
Ready for a gut-punch of honesty? If you’re obsessed with solving your clients’ and team’s problems, you’re on the fast track to destroying your business. Yep, you read that right. The very thing you think makes you a great business owner or CEO—the relentless pursuit of solutions—is what’s holding you, your clients, and your team back from true, lasting success.
Sounds crazy, right? But stick with me, because this is the #1 reason most businesses plateau, burn out, or fade into the background. It’s not because you’re not smart enough, or not working hard enough. It’s because you’re playing the wrong game.
Let’s get real: Solving surface-level problems is like putting a Band-Aid on a broken leg. It looks like action. It feels productive. But it doesn’t actually fix what’s broken. In fact, it creates a cycle where you’re always chasing the next problem, never addressing the root cause—and never unlocking the kind of transformation that makes your clients say, “Wow, You Finally Made Me Great.”
Here’s the secret the world’s top-performing businesses already know: People don’t buy solutions to their problems. They buy relief from their subconscious frustrations.
Let’s break that down. Every client, every team member, every business owner walks around with a set of hidden, deeply rooted frustrations. These aren’t the things they talk about in meetings or write down on feedback forms. These are the nagging doubts, the silent fears, the “not good enough” stories that live in the back of their minds and drive every decision they make.
When you focus on fixing what’s visible—the obvious problems, that you may call "pain"—you’re missing the real opportunity. You’re treating symptoms, not the disease. And you’re leaving massive amounts of growth, loyalty, and revenue on the table.
Let’s look at two real-world examples of what happens when businesses fall into the problem-solving trap versus when they target subconscious frustrations.
Remember Blockbuster? They were obsessed with solving the “problem” of movie rentals: more stores, longer hours, bigger selection. But what did they miss? The subconscious frustration of their customers: the hassle of late fees, the embarrassment of returning a movie late, the frustration of never finding what they wanted. Netflix didn’t just solve the surface problem—they eradicated the subconscious pain by offering no late fees, instant access, and personalized recommendations. The result? Blockbuster is a memory, and Netflix is a global powerhouse.
Want another one? Deutsche Bahn (DB), the country’s main train operator, spent years focusing on technical problems: train delays, ticketing systems, and scheduling. But what did they overlook? The subconscious frustration of feeling powerless when trains were late, or the anxiety of complicated pricing. Enter FlixBus, a startup that didn’t just offer cheaper tickets—they addressed the frustration of unpredictability with flexible bookings, real-time updates, and a customer-first approach. Today, FlixBus has eaten into DB’s market share, not by being technically superior, but by targeting what their customers really care about: control, flexibility, and peace of mind.
See the pattern? The real winners are those who go deeper. They don’t just ask, “What problem can I solve?” They ask, “What keeps my clients and team up at night, even if they never say it out loud?”
Let’s get practical. If you’re tired of playing whack-a-mole with your clients’ and team’s problems, it’s time to shift your entire approach. Enter the Make Me Great system—a proven, science-backed blueprint for targeting the subconscious frustrations that drive real change.
Here’s the truth: When you address what people really want—relief from those subconscious frustrations—you don’t just win their business. You win their loyalty, their advocacy, and their willingness to grow with you. That’s how you build a tribe, not just a client list.
Stop solving, start elevating: The Make Me Great method isn’t about being the hero who swoops in to save the day. It’s about empowering your clients and team to become their own heroes. When you help them see what’s possible beyond their surface problems, you unlock motivation, creativity, and commitment you never thought possible.
How do you do it? Start by asking better questions. Instead of “What’s the problem?” try “What’s really frustrating you that you haven’t told anyone?” or “What would make you feel unstoppable?”
Use brain science, not guesswork: The Make Me Great system is built on ethical persuasion and neuroscience. We map the four key parameters: subconscious frustrations, WHO you are, WHY you do what you do, and how your clients make decisions. This isn’t theory—it’s practical, actionable, and proven to work in any industry.
Real transformation beats quick fixes: When you target subconscious frustrations, you create breakthroughs that last. Your clients and team don’t just get a solution—they get a new way of thinking, working, and succeeding. That’s the ultimate competitive advantage.
Let’s bring it back to those examples:
Netflix: Didn’t just make movie rentals easier. They made people feel smart, in control, and free from guilt—subconscious wins that built lifelong loyalty.
FlixBus: Didn’t just offer cheaper rides. They made travel feel empowering, flexible, and stress-free. That’s what customers came back for, again and again.
Now, imagine what happens when you bring this mindset to your own business. Your clients don’t just stick around—they become raving fans. Your team doesn’t just perform—they become unstoppable. Growth becomes a natural byproduct of your focus on what really matters. You have to elevate your clients to elevate your success!
Here’s your move: Stop being the firefighter, and start being the architect of transformation. If you’re ready to ditch the problem-solving hamster wheel and start targeting the subconscious frustrations that actually drive results, I’ve got something special for you.
Watch my free webinar: How to Become Unforgettable—The Science of Ethical Persuasion. In just one session, you’ll discover how to:
Identify the hidden frustrations that hold your clients and team back
Apply brain science to create lasting change (not just quick fixes)
Build a business that grows on loyalty, not just transactions
Use the Make Me Great approach to become the leader everyone wants to follow
Ready to stop solving problems and start making people great? Join the webinar now and unlock the next level of growth for you, your team, and your business. Let’s make greatness your new normal!
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