Men don't come from Mars, Women don't come from Venus! Both come from a cave and have complementary brains!
You can Get More! from your couple when you know how your partner's brain works! Don't worry the heavy lifting has been made for you! Keep reading to Learn more!
Female and male brains don't handle language in the same area of the brain. Female brains use most of the cortex, male ones only the left part. That's why she is using a more "generic" vocabulary than him.
Dark chocolate triggers the same brain receptors as the ones activated by drugs, called the cannabinoid receptors. Champagne works well on the male brain.
Wondering why men mostly never talk when "doing it"? That's because language and "sex focus" are located in the same area of the male brain. To make him last longer ask him to talk.
Memorisation is the combination of emotion and repetition. Wonder why women remember all the dates and men none? That's because the female brain handles emotions better than the male one.
The Neuro Couple System will teach you many more and how to use them for You to Get More! Keep Reading ...
Male and Female brains are different due to the Human species evolution. You HAVE TO know them to be/stay happy in your relationship!
Psychology, psychanalyse is painful as you have to expose yourself to a stranger trying to access your thoughts. What if you could learn what really drives your partner's decisions? And how to drive those?
What if you could use simple techniques derived from the latest neuroscience daily and Get More! from your partner?
Until now your only solutions to save you from your couple were: read many psychology couple books, test the concepts, try to persuade your partner to do the same or find a divorce lawyer!
You also had the option to listen to your family or best friends all suggesting that you have to "change", adapt to keep your partner!?
ENOUGH! Be YOU! Be TWO! Be NEW! With the NeuroCouple system designed just for YOU!
Be You! You are the key element to all your relationships. People like and love you for who you are. Over the time you are getting more and more pressure to change, to become someone else to please them all. Should you? No!Learn how you can use your brain to stay who you are and still have successful relationships! Become a Couple Warrior!
Be Two! Humans are a social specie and as such always seek people to be with and to share their life with. It's already tough to be in friendly relationships as you all have your own history and memories. But being in a couple is the ultimate challenge that 70% fail!What if you could belong to the 30% elite ?What if you could become a Couple Warrior
Be New! Taking massive action to reach your happiness is what people like you do! You deserve to be a Couple Warrior! Every step in life starts with a new learning! You will find here all the knowledge you need to grow as a person and as a Couple Warrior!
You will be back to your true-self:
When you start a relationship it is because of who you are. Why change then? You can be you and use the brain to handle your relationships.
Using the way the brain reacts and takes decisions will help you be perceived as the one to be and share with .
Your reputation, your pleasure, your knowledge, yourself, by using the power of brain science .
Summer Relationships
The sun has a direct impact on your desire, and need for relationships.
How to get the Woman of Your Dreams
Especially written for men!
What Men Want
Men are a bit more complex than you think ...
4 Brain Secrets for Optimal Dating Profiles
Use science to be seen!
How to Fight Porn Addiction
Stop putting your couple and success at risk!
Body Language
Learn to read the subconscious signals your partner is sending.
Get More!
Learn how you can Get More! Love, Freedom and Sex in your relationship.
"Loved everything so far"
I am a Neuro Couple Group member for 3 weeks now, the group was funded by Thomas who I know for some years. His passion for neurosciences made him decide to share his knowledge for the couple. As much as we get taught a lot during childhood, as much we know nothing about the couple … and this is where Neuro Couple helps … couples but also singles. Neuro Couple gives us the keys to this mystery: the couple, for both men and women. Aside the knowledge, the personal thinking “of course, that’s it!” (getting conscious of one’s own mistakes), Neuro Couple shares this knowledge in a friendly and happy way …
- Régine
"My life changed forever"
Joining Neuro Couple was a nice surprise to me. The way ideas, information, stories are mixed and communicated in different steps makes not only very friendly the reading, but the stronger the understanding of the topics themselves. It is up to me to translate those tips and readings, into a more effective approach and behaviour towards my mate. I will keep entering the group every evening, because I found out that is much more worth to, than I expected when I joined.
- Alessandro
"Highly recommend this"
Living for 25 years my couple life while always asking myself the same questions to improve the relationship has been mi daily trouble till I found how useful the Neuro Couple is. Yes, this group has helped me on many levels. Thanks to its concise content, the self-explanatory videos, the group has started to answer some of the many questions I was asking myself about my couple’s well-being and what the best way to handle difficult times, for both partners. As surprising as this can sound, this group, thanks to the ideas and advice it provides helped me also to answer questions I never even asked myself. This group, funded by Thomas is also bilingual (French and English), which I appreciate.
- Anne-Marie
Your mom, family, friends are always telling you that you can save your couple by changing, by being another person, and you believed them? THINK AGAIN!
"I told you so! I told you that this isn't the right partner for you" ... "If you don't make the effort and change, your couple will break-up!" ... "You never listen to me, you don't hear me, I want a divorce" ... and this could go on and on and on.
Your Brain
Why male and female brains aren't equals: Evolution has formatted the human brain based on the role of each gender in the growth of humanity. Sounds great? Almost ... because evolution, for the brain, stopped 100.000 years ago ... oooops!
How these differences are impacting your life: as much rational as you can be ... your couple life is still impacted by old primal processes that are driving your behaviours and killing your couple .... the solution to become a winner are listed in your book.
How can you Get More! in your relationship? The answer is this one: use your brains! Yours and your partner's ... but use them at their most primal level ... at the level that runs human relationships!
Your Communication
Handle arguments, make them shorter and come back to being happy faster. How is that possible? Every of your arguments/fights is about an ancestral survival system called fight/flight. Driven by chemicals in the human brain for thousands of years, it still runs nowadays. Learn to manage it properly and stop fighting.
Communicate with the other gender's brain. Thanks ... sort of ... to human evolution male and female brains don't communicate the same way. They don't even handle language the same way. Learn how male and female communication processes work and start to really talk a common language.
Your Decisions
Your brain and your partner's brain make decisions at the primal level as it has been scientifically demonstrated 15 years ago.
There is no rational decision in normal life and even less in a couple relationship! To Get More! the solution is to learn how those decisions are made and what triggers you should use.
Use contrast
Use emotions (with care)
Fight Adrenaline
Your Techniques
You will learn that thanks to the brain you can get crazy results just by using red lipstick, or give him champagne and to her dark chocolate. You will also discover why some words aren't perceived the same way in. the male and the female brains.
Welcome to the NeuroCouple system! I have developed it to help all the people who want to be happy in their couple.
The Brain being a passion I have compiled for you the latest brain science. No need to spend painful hours with psychiatrists, couple coaches who use old fashinoed methods (why do you think those guys make so much money? No need to go to some expensive divorce lawyer.
Your smile is my fuel!
Use the NeuroCouple system and start smiling again!
If you’ve seen the headlines this week, you’ve witnessed a masterclass in how NOT to become unforgettable.
Let’s be honest—every business leader, every CEO, every decision-maker dreams of being unforgettable. Not just visible. Not just making noise. But truly, deeply, permanently unforgettable in the minds of clients, partners, and the world. Yet this week, with Trump, the European leaders, and Zelenski all sharing the stage, we got a front-row seat to what happens when the wrong people try to play that game.
The world tuned in for big promises, big personalities, and what was billed as a “historic” summit. But what’s actually unforgettable about this gathering isn’t the leadership, or the hope for peace. It’s the hypocrisy, the posturing, the devil’s bargain playing out behind the scenes. Trump struts in, declaring, “I know how to make a deal. I know how to end this war in 24 hours.”
The Europeans echo with, “We must remain united in support of Ukraine, but we must also secure our own interests.” And Zelenski, once the darling of the West, now stands accused of turning global sympathy and billions in aid into his own private piano—playing a tune that makes him richer while his people pay the price.
Every leader in that room wants to be unforgettable. But instead of leaving a legacy, they’re leaving a warning. The piano is playing, but the devil’s at the keys. They’re not making themselves unforgettable for the right reasons—they’re making themselves unforgettable for all the reasons you and I should avoid.
So, what if you could become unforgettable for the right reasons? What if you could walk into any room, any meeting, any negotiation, and have people remember you—not for your scandals, not for your noise, but for the way you made them feel, for the way you elevated them, for the way you changed their story?
That’s what we’re talking about today. And by the end of this, you’ll know exactly how to move from invisible to unforgettable—without ever needing a scandal, a headline, or a devil’s deal.
Let’s break this down. Because whether you’re running a business, leading a team, or building a brand, you’ve got your own version of that piano in every room you enter. You have the power to create harmony, to inspire, to leave a mark that lasts. But you also face the devil’s temptation: to play for yourself, to take shortcuts, to chase short-term wins at the expense of long-term trust.
Let’s get real: most leaders—especially in politics, but also in business—fail because they’re playing the wrong song. They think leadership is about being the loudest, the smartest, the richest. They forget that the real job is to make their clients, their people, their audience unforgettable.
That’s the heart of the “From Invisible to Unforgettable” system. Your job isn’t to be the star. Your job is to make everyone else in the room feel like they’re the star.
When you do that, you win. Every time.
But look at what’s happening in this meeting. The European leaders are playing for themselves. They’re making decisions based on what’s good for their bottom line, not what’s right for the people who actually pay the price. They’re listening to the devil, who’s whispering, “Take the money. Secure your future. The war will end eventually, but you need to win now.”
And here’s where the “From Invisible to Unforgettable” system would change everything. Imagine if, instead of talking about “economic realities,” the European leaders walked in and said, “Our job is to make Ukraine unforgettable. Our job is to make peace unforgettable. Our job is to make the people we serve feel safe, empowered, and respected.” Imagine if they played the piano for the audience, not for themselves.
The devil would have no place in that room.
But that’s not what happened. And let’s be honest, that’s not what happens in most boardrooms, most governments, most businesses. The temptation to play for yourself is strong. The devil is always there, offering shortcuts, easy wins, quick profits. But every time you take his deal, you lose something you can never get back: trust.
Trust is the currency of leadership. It’s what makes people follow you, buy from you, believe in you. Lose it, and it doesn’t matter how much money you make, how many deals you close, how many wars you win. You’re just another player at the piano, banging out noise while the audience looks for someone who can actually play a tune worth listening to.
Let’s get even more controversial, because let’s face it, that’s what gets people talking. The truth is, a lot of the European leaders don’t actually want the war to end—not yet. There’s too much money to be made, too many deals to be done, too many headlines to be written. If peace broke out tomorrow, a lot of powerful people would lose their seat at the piano. The devil isn’t just in the details—he’s in the incentives.
And before you say, “That’s just politics,” ask yourself: how many times have you seen the same thing in business? How many times have you seen leaders make decisions that are good for them, but bad for the people they’re supposed to serve?
How many times have you been tempted to take the devil’s deal, to play a song you know isn’t right, just because it’s easier, faster, more profitable?
This is where the “From Invisible to Unforgettable” system comes in. It’s not just a business strategy—it’s a way of living, a way of leading, a way of playing the piano so that everyone in the room wants to listen, wants to join in, wants to follow your lead.
It’s about shifting the focus from “How do I win?” to “How do I make you unforgettable?” Because when you make your clients, your team, your partners unforgettable, you become unforgettable.
You become the leader everyone wants to follow, the brand everyone wants to buy from, the person everyone wants in the room.
Let’s get practical. The first step in the “From Invisible to Unforgettable” system is to know WHO you are. Not who you want people to think you are, not who the devil says you should be, but who you really are when the music stops and the room goes quiet. Are you the kind of leader who plays for applause, or the kind who plays for impact?
Are you willing to stand up, even when it’s unpopular, and say, “My job is to make you unforgettable, not just myself”?
The second step is to know WHY you do what you do. If your only reason is profit, the devil will always have a seat at your piano. But if your reason is bigger—if it’s about making a difference, creating value, leaving a legacy—then every note you play will ring true. People can feel the difference. They know when you’re playing for them, and when you’re just playing for yourself.
The third step is to build your TRIBE. Not just a fan club, not just a mailing list, but a real community of people who believe in what you’re doing because you’ve made them unforgettable. When you have a tribe, you don’t have to shout to be heard.
You don’t have to fight for attention. Your tribe will carry your message, defend your reputation, and help you create the kind of impact that lasts long after the last note is played.
The fourth step is to master ETHICAL PERSUASION. The devil loves manipulation, half-truths, and spin. But real leaders persuade by being honest, by telling the truth, by showing up even when it’s hard. Ethical persuasion isn’t about tricking people—it’s about inspiring them to want what’s actually good for them. It’s about making the right thing the easy thing.
And the fifth step is to COMMUNICATE DIRECTLY TO THE BRAIN. The piano is a powerful metaphor because music bypasses logic and hits us right in the emotions. Great leaders know how to communicate in a way that sticks—not through fear or pressure, but through stories, metaphors, and messages that make people feel something real. When you speak to the brain, you move people. When you move people, you change the world.
Now, I know some of you are thinking, “That all sounds great, but isn’t it naïve? Isn’t the world just too complicated, too corrupt, too full of devils for this to work?” And to that I say, maybe. Maybe the world is full of devils. Maybe the piano is out of tune. But every great movement, every great company, every great leader started by refusing to play the old song. They started by writing a new one—a song that made everyone in the room feel like they mattered, like they belonged, like they could be unforgettable too.
So here’s my challenge to you. The next time you walk into a meeting, a negotiation, a crisis—look for the piano. Ask yourself, “Am I playing for myself, or am I playing to make everyone else in this room unforgettable?” Listen for the devil. He’ll be there, whispering shortcuts, easy wins, reasons to compromise. But remember, every time you take his deal, you lose a little bit of what makes you unforgettable.
And if you want to learn how to play the piano so well that the devil gives up and leaves the room—if you want to become the kind of leader who’s remembered not for the noise you made, but for the music you created—then join me this Thursday for a free webinar. No sales pitch, no devil’s bargain, just real talk about how to move from invisible to unforgettable as a leader, a brand, and a human being.
Book your seat here: https://make-me-great.com/webinar-registration
Because the world is tired of devils at the piano. It’s time for a new tune. Will you play it?
(C) Dr. Thomas Trautmann - Happy Brains