Men don't come from Mars, Women don't come from Venus! Both come from a cave and have complementary brains!
You can Get More! from your couple when you know how your partner's brain works! Don't worry the heavy lifting has been made for you! Keep reading to Learn more!
Female and male brains don't handle language in the same area of the brain. Female brains use most of the cortex, male ones only the left part. That's why she is using a more "generic" vocabulary than him.
Dark chocolate triggers the same brain receptors as the ones activated by drugs, called the cannabinoid receptors. Champagne works well on the male brain.
Wondering why men mostly never talk when "doing it"? That's because language and "sex focus" are located in the same area of the male brain. To make him last longer ask him to talk.
Memorisation is the combination of emotion and repetition. Wonder why women remember all the dates and men none? That's because the female brain handles emotions better than the male one.
The Neuro Couple System will teach you many more and how to use them for You to Get More! Keep Reading ...
Male and Female brains are different due to the Human species evolution. You HAVE TO know them to be/stay happy in your relationship!
Psychology, psychanalyse is painful as you have to expose yourself to a stranger trying to access your thoughts. What if you could learn what really drives your partner's decisions? And how to drive those?
What if you could use simple techniques derived from the latest neuroscience daily and Get More! from your partner?
Until now your only solutions to save you from your couple were: read many psychology couple books, test the concepts, try to persuade your partner to do the same or find a divorce lawyer!
You also had the option to listen to your family or best friends all suggesting that you have to "change", adapt to keep your partner!?
ENOUGH! Be YOU! Be TWO! Be NEW! With the NeuroCouple system designed just for YOU!
Be You! You are the key element to all your relationships. People like and love you for who you are. Over the time you are getting more and more pressure to change, to become someone else to please them all. Should you? No!Learn how you can use your brain to stay who you are and still have successful relationships! Become a Couple Warrior!
Be Two! Humans are a social specie and as such always seek people to be with and to share their life with. It's already tough to be in friendly relationships as you all have your own history and memories. But being in a couple is the ultimate challenge that 70% fail!What if you could belong to the 30% elite ?What if you could become a Couple Warrior
Be New! Taking massive action to reach your happiness is what people like you do! You deserve to be a Couple Warrior! Every step in life starts with a new learning! You will find here all the knowledge you need to grow as a person and as a Couple Warrior!
You will be back to your true-self:
When you start a relationship it is because of who you are. Why change then? You can be you and use the brain to handle your relationships.
Using the way the brain reacts and takes decisions will help you be perceived as the one to be and share with .
Your reputation, your pleasure, your knowledge, yourself, by using the power of brain science .
Summer Relationships
The sun has a direct impact on your desire, and need for relationships.
How to get the Woman of Your Dreams
Especially written for men!
What Men Want
Men are a bit more complex than you think ...
4 Brain Secrets for Optimal Dating Profiles
Use science to be seen!
How to Fight Porn Addiction
Stop putting your couple and success at risk!
Body Language
Learn to read the subconscious signals your partner is sending.
Get More!
Learn how you can Get More! Love, Freedom and Sex in your relationship.
"Loved everything so far"
I am a Neuro Couple Group member for 3 weeks now, the group was funded by Thomas who I know for some years. His passion for neurosciences made him decide to share his knowledge for the couple. As much as we get taught a lot during childhood, as much we know nothing about the couple … and this is where Neuro Couple helps … couples but also singles. Neuro Couple gives us the keys to this mystery: the couple, for both men and women. Aside the knowledge, the personal thinking “of course, that’s it!” (getting conscious of one’s own mistakes), Neuro Couple shares this knowledge in a friendly and happy way …
- Régine
"My life changed forever"
Joining Neuro Couple was a nice surprise to me. The way ideas, information, stories are mixed and communicated in different steps makes not only very friendly the reading, but the stronger the understanding of the topics themselves. It is up to me to translate those tips and readings, into a more effective approach and behaviour towards my mate. I will keep entering the group every evening, because I found out that is much more worth to, than I expected when I joined.
- Alessandro
"Highly recommend this"
Living for 25 years my couple life while always asking myself the same questions to improve the relationship has been mi daily trouble till I found how useful the Neuro Couple is. Yes, this group has helped me on many levels. Thanks to its concise content, the self-explanatory videos, the group has started to answer some of the many questions I was asking myself about my couple’s well-being and what the best way to handle difficult times, for both partners. As surprising as this can sound, this group, thanks to the ideas and advice it provides helped me also to answer questions I never even asked myself. This group, funded by Thomas is also bilingual (French and English), which I appreciate.
- Anne-Marie
Your mom, family, friends are always telling you that you can save your couple by changing, by being another person, and you believed them? THINK AGAIN!
"I told you so! I told you that this isn't the right partner for you" ... "If you don't make the effort and change, your couple will break-up!" ... "You never listen to me, you don't hear me, I want a divorce" ... and this could go on and on and on.
Your Brain
Why male and female brains aren't equals: Evolution has formatted the human brain based on the role of each gender in the growth of humanity. Sounds great? Almost ... because evolution, for the brain, stopped 100.000 years ago ... oooops!
How these differences are impacting your life: as much rational as you can be ... your couple life is still impacted by old primal processes that are driving your behaviours and killing your couple .... the solution to become a winner are listed in your book.
How can you Get More! in your relationship? The answer is this one: use your brains! Yours and your partner's ... but use them at their most primal level ... at the level that runs human relationships!
Your Communication
Handle arguments, make them shorter and come back to being happy faster. How is that possible? Every of your arguments/fights is about an ancestral survival system called fight/flight. Driven by chemicals in the human brain for thousands of years, it still runs nowadays. Learn to manage it properly and stop fighting.
Communicate with the other gender's brain. Thanks ... sort of ... to human evolution male and female brains don't communicate the same way. They don't even handle language the same way. Learn how male and female communication processes work and start to really talk a common language.
Your Decisions
Your brain and your partner's brain make decisions at the primal level as it has been scientifically demonstrated 15 years ago.
There is no rational decision in normal life and even less in a couple relationship! To Get More! the solution is to learn how those decisions are made and what triggers you should use.
Use contrast
Use emotions (with care)
Fight Adrenaline
Your Techniques
You will learn that thanks to the brain you can get crazy results just by using red lipstick, or give him champagne and to her dark chocolate. You will also discover why some words aren't perceived the same way in. the male and the female brains.
Welcome to the NeuroCouple system! I have developed it to help all the people who want to be happy in their couple.
The Brain being a passion I have compiled for you the latest brain science. No need to spend painful hours with psychiatrists, couple coaches who use old fashinoed methods (why do you think those guys make so much money? No need to go to some expensive divorce lawyer.
Your smile is my fuel!
Use the NeuroCouple system and start smiling again!
There’s a moment every business owner knows too well: you step into the room and you’re not fully there. Your body arrived, but your mind is still catching up—half-distracted by yesterday’s emails, partially rehearsing a future pitch, vaguely sensing a fog you can’t shake. And yet, five pairs of eyes look to you for clarity. The future of a deal, a team, or a quarter sits quietly in the air between you and them—waiting to see the way your brain will steer the next few minutes.
That moment is where Make Me Great begins—not on a landing page, not in a deck, not with a clever line, but in your brain.
Make Me Great isn’t a slogan. It’s a system that expects you to do the hardest work first: upgrade the instrument that drives every conversation, every decision, every act of ethical persuasion. The promise to make others great requires an inner foundation strong enough to carry their hopes without collapsing under your own pressure. If you want clients to elevate, you must go first.
The Skydiving Truth About Leadership
If you’ve ever gone skydiving—or even just imagined the jump—you know the paradox: your eyes can see the ground, your stomach can feel the drop, and your brain is asked to choose trust over survival reflex. Business leadership is skydiving in slow motion. Every day asks you to jump: into uncertainty, into risk, into the unknown reaction of a client or a market. Your job is to convince your nervous system that it’s safe enough to make the leap—and then convince others to follow.
But your brain won’t believe you if it’s running on fumes.
When your neurons are underpowered, your prefrontal cortex (the part that plans, prioritizes) can’t do its best work. The amygdala (your built-in threat detector) gets loud, scanning for danger in every email. Under the guise of “prudence,” your brain clutches at the familiar. Deals die in tiny hesitations. Clients don’t say no—they drift. Teams don’t argue—they slow down. And you tell yourself that tomorrow you’ll think more clearly.
Tomorrow never arrives for a tired brain.
Why Make Me Great Starts in Your Brain
Make Me Great is rooted in a simple truth: you can’t sustainably elevate your clients with a mind that feels cornered, depleted, or scattered. You can execute tactics, but you can’t transmit conviction. You can deliver projects, but you can’t deliver presence—the calm, focused presence that clients recognize instantly as leadership.
Neuroscience offers a clear equation:
Energy drives clarity. Your brain consumes ~20% of your body’s energy. When energy falters, so does executive function.
Clarity drives empathy. A clear mind hears what clients mean, not just what they say.
Empathy drives ethical persuasion. When clients feel seen, their threat response drops. Decisions accelerate.
Ethical persuasion drives great outcomes. When clients believe “you make me great,” they commit deeper, return faster, and refer more.
Flip the equation and you get the trap: low energy → low clarity → low empathy → high friction → average outcomes. The room feels heavy. Everyone senses it, no one names it.
The Brain’s Two Rooms
There are really two rooms you walk into each day.
Room one is loud and cramped. Notifications line the walls. Questions bounce from corner to corner: “Did we send that proposal?” “What’s the budget?” “Why is Q4 behind?” Your brain pings like a metal bead in a pinball machine—reactive, clever, always busy, rarely wise.
Room two is spacious and quiet. Your priorities are visible on the walls. Your team knows the mission. Your body is calm. When a client shares a worry, you can hear the story beneath the story. The next action feels obvious. You didn’t get lucky; you prepared your brain to lead.
Make Me Great is the practice of entering room two on purpose. Not once. Not occasionally. Daily.
The Biology of “Make Me Great”
If the mantra of “make others great” feels ambitious on a hard day, that’s because greatness is expensive—it costs your brain real energy. Conviction, curiosity, patience, and precision all rely on a well-fueled prefrontal cortex. That fuel is ATP, made by your cell’s power plants (mitochondria). Those power plants rely on NAD+ to convert what you eat into what you can think.
When NAD+ is low (age, stress, poor sleep, relentless context-switching), neurons underperform. You feel it as fog, indecision, shorter focus windows, flattened empathy. When NAD+ is supported (good sleep, movement, nutrition—and for many, targeted supplementation), neurons recover their rhythm. You feel it as a steady spine: clearer recall, longer focus arcs, better emotional control. You don’t become a different person; you become the person your clients hired.
This is not biohacker theater. It’s core leadership hygiene—brain energy supports ethical influence. You can’t make me great if your internal systems are yelling “survive” while your mouth says “serve.”
Skydiving, Again—This Time With a Parachute You Packed
The first time you step to the edge of the plane, you borrow confidence from the instructor. The tenth time, your brain has proof: this is terrifying and safe. In business, you only get there by repetition. You stack experiences where you chose room two, breathed, listened harder than you spoke, translated a client’s frustration into a plan they could trust, and calmly asked for the commitment that would make them great.
Each repetition rewires your brain’s threat calculus. The “jump” stops being a cliff and becomes a practiced sequence: stabilize breath, match pace, clarify goal, simplify options, decide. Clients feel it. They move with you. This is the compounding magic of Make Me Great: improved brain state → better leadership behaviors → stronger client outcomes → reinforced confidence → improved brain state, again.
Five Shifts Business Owners Can Make This Week
Enter the right room in the morning. Before the inbox, sit in quiet for five minutes. Write your client’s desired outcome in one sentence. Then write the one action you’ll take today to move it forward. This is not motivation; it’s attention engineering.
Protect a 90-minute block. Your prefrontal cortex does elite work when it isn’t multitasking. Give it one mission and a closed door. Tell your team why. You’re not avoiding them; you’re protecting the work they hired you to do.
Break the decision logjam. Postpone three low-stakes choices today. Decide the one move that would make the biggest difference for a client this week. Decide it now. Make room for weight-bearing decisions by eliminating pebbles.
Refuel on purpose. Midday, step out of the room. Move your body for five minutes. Drink water. Eat something that grows (greens, nuts, berries) and something that repairs (protein). If you support NAD+, time it for when you need presence—not hype—most: before a pitch, a negotiation, or a review.
Close the day like a pro. The brain hates open loops. Write tomorrow’s top task and one sentence of why it matters to your client. Turn off the glow. Give sleep the respect it deserves. A brain that recovers is a brain that persuades without strain.
The Ethical Persuader Difference
Make Me Great and the Ethical Persuader System fit together for a reason: persuasion that lasts is persuasion that reduces threat. Authenticity lowers your own cognitive load—pretending is expensive. Empathy calibrates your message to the right frequency—irrelevance is noise. Transparency eases the client’s amygdala—ambiguity feels like danger. Empowerment gives the client authorship. When you do all four with a well-fueled brain, you’re not pushing; you’re guiding. You don’t sell; you translate. Decisions accelerate because fear declines.
Clients don’t return because you dazzled them. They return because their nervous system remembers how it felt in the room with you: calmer, clearer, stronger. That memory is your moat.
The skydiving metaphor is useful because it captures the moment that matters: when your body wants out and your mission needs in. That moment happens in rooms where clients decide, teams align, and futures fork. Your job is not to be a superhero. It’s to be so grounded—so well-fueled, so well-practiced—that others can trust their jump because you’ve made yours.
That’s the quiet promise of Make Me Great: I will upgrade my brain so I can carry your upgrade safely. I will enter the right room, bring the right energy, and hold the frame of your success until you can hold it yourself.
Start Where It Counts
You don’t need a bigger to-do list. You need a different operating state. Make Me Great starts in your brain because everything else rests on it—your empathy, your strategy, your words, your ability to remain steady when a client wobbles. If you want your business to grow, start with the only asset that compounds across every action you take: your mind.
The room is waiting. The door is open. The jump is the same—today, tomorrow, every day. You can train for this. You can engineer for it. You can make yourself great so you can make them great.
If you’re ready to measure where you are and see exactly how to raise the floor—clarity, presence, decision power—start with the simplest step.
Take the “How Great Is Your Brain?” Quiz: https://home.happy-brains.com/brainblueprint
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